Parenting is a journey filled with both challenges and profound joys. In a Jewish household, this journey is deeply enriched by the values, traditions and teachings of Judaism. These principles not only guide parents in raising well-rounded and resilient children but also ensure the continuation of a rich cultural and religious heritage. Here are some practical parenting tips for a Jewish household that align with Jewish teachings and can help nurture your children’s growth and happiness.

1. Embrace Shabbat as Family Time

Shabbat, the weekly day of rest, is a cornerstone of Jewish life. Use this time to disconnect from the hustle and bustle of daily life and reconnect with your family. Engage in meaningful conversations, share meals and participate in prayer together. The tranquility of Shabbat provides an opportunity to model the importance of rest, reflection and family bonds.

Tip: Create a special Shabbat box with games, books and activities that your children can look forward to each week. This makes the day even more special and anticipated.

2. Teach Through Stories

Jewish tradition is rich with historical accounts that carry deep moral and ethical lessons. Use these stories from the Torah and other Jewish texts to teach your children about values such as kindness, justice and humility. Storytelling is a powerful tool to convey complex ideas in a relatable and memorable way.

Tip: Incorporate a weekly story time where you read and discuss a Jewish story. Ask open-ended questions to encourage your children to think critically and relate the lessons to their own lives.

3. Celebrate Jewish Holidays

Jewish holidays are not only times for celebration but also for learning and growth. It is taught that a Jewish holiday is more than just an anniversary in remembrance of something in Jewish history. Each year, the source of strength and spirituality that occured on the original holiday comes down and permeates the day. Every holiday has its unique themes and traditions that can teach your children about different aspects of Jewish life and values. Engage your children in the preparations and explain the significance of each holiday.

Tip: Create fun and educational activities related to each holiday, such as crafts for Sukkot, baking hamantaschen for Purim or making charoset for Passover. These hands-on experiences make the holidays more engaging and meaningful for children.

4. Foster a Love for Learning

Judaism places a high value on education and lifelong learning. Encourage your children to be curious and ask questions. Support their academic pursuits and also introduce them to Jewish learning, whether through a Jewish day school, Hebrew school or family study sessions.

Tip: Designate a specific time each week for family study. This can be a time to explore Jewish texts, learn Hebrew or discuss ethical dilemmas from a Jewish perspective. Showing your enthusiasm for learning will inspire your children to value it as well.


5. Practice Gratitude and Charity

Gratitude and charity (tzedakah) are fundamental Jewish values. Teach your children to appreciate what they have and to be mindful of the needs of others. Involve them in charitable activities, such as donating toys or volunteering at a local shelter. Every child should have their very own tzedakah box in their bedroom. Additionally, the Lubavitcher Rebbe said that every home should have a tzedakah box in the kitchen, affixed to the wall. The kitchen is the communal room of the home and nailing a charity box to the wall changes the status of the home to being a home of charity. In Judaism, it is taught that “Action is the main thing” (Hebrew transliteration: ha’maase hu ha’ikar). Better to give a small coin daily than give a larger amount one a month. Each action of giving tzedakah is a mitzvah!

Tip: Create a family tzedakah box and encourage your children to contribute regularly. Discuss as a family where to donate the collected money, and let your children see the impact of their contributions.

6. Lead by Example

Children learn a great deal by observing their parents. Strive to embody the values and behaviors you wish to instill in your children. Whether it’s through acts of kindness, daily prayers or how you treat others, your actions will leave a lasting impression on your children.

Tip: Share stories of your own experiences and how Jewish values guided your actions. This transparency helps children understand the practical applications of what they are learning.

7. Create a Jewish Home Environment

Fill your home with Jewish symbols, books and music. This creates a tangible connection to their heritage and reinforces their Jewish identity. Celebrate the beauty of Jewish culture through art, food and traditions.

Tip: Involve your children in decorating the house for holidays, setting up a home library with Jewish books and listening to Jewish music together. These small acts contribute to a strong sense of identity and belonging.

Creating a Loving and Spiritually Rich Environment

Raising children in a Jewish household is a unique and rewarding experience. By incorporating these parenting tips, you can nurture your children’s development, instill strong values and create lasting memories rooted in Jewish tradition. Remember, the goal is to foster a loving, joyful and spiritually rich environment where your children can thrive.

I hope you’ve found these parenting tips for a Jewish household helpful. For more tips and insights on Jewish life, enjoy other articles on Rebbetzin Unplugged.

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Shavuot is a significant Jewish holiday that celebrates the Giving of the Torah at Mount Sinai over 3,000 years ago! In 2024, The two day holiday of Shavuot begins at sunset on Tuesday, June 11, 2024 and finishes at nightfall on Thursday, June 13, 2024. It is a time for joy, gratitude, and reflection. As we approach this special occasion, let’s put your knowledge of Shavuot customs to the test! Take this fun quiz to see how well you know the traditions associated with Shavuot. Get ready to learn something new and have fun along the way!

Shavuot Customs Quiz:

1. What is the literal meaning of the word “Shavuot”?
a) Giving of the Torah
b) Feast of Weeks
c) Festival of Lights
d) Day of Atonement

2. Shavuot is observed on the sixth day of which Jewish month?
a) Nisan
b) Tishrei
c) Iyar
d) Sivan

3. What agricultural aspect is closely associated with Shavuot?
a) Harvesting of wheat
b) Planting of trees
c) Grape harvesting
d) Olive oil production

4. Which of the following is a popular custom on Shavuot?
a) Eating unleavened bread
b) Building a Sukkah
c) Lighting the Hanukkah menorah
d) Eating dairy foods

5. True or False
The Torah is likened to nourishing milk. The gematria (numerical value) of the letters in the Hebrew word for milk (chalav) add up to 40, which is the same amount of days that Moses spent on Mount Sinai to receive the Torah.
a) True
c) False

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6. Shavuot marks the birthday and yahrtzheit (day of passing) of who?
a) King David
b) Moses
c) Joshua
d) Ruth

7. Which Book of the Torah is read in the synagogue on the first day of Shavuot?
a) Psalms
b) Exodus
c) Proverbs
d) Book of Ruth

8. What is the name of the traditional decorative element associated with Shavuot?
a) Challah
b) Menorah
c) Hamsa
d) Flowers

9. Shavuot is called by other names. Which does NOT refer to Shavuot?
a) Chag HaKatzir (The Harvest Festival)
b) Chag HaUrim (Festival of Lights)
c) Yom HaBikurim (Day of the First Fruits)
d) Zman Matan Torahteinu (Time of the Giving of Our Torah)

10. What is Tikkun Leil Shavuot?
a) A Shavuot Dessert
b) A Shavuot Song
c) An all-night study session
d) Time to light holiday candles


  • 0-3 correct answers: Keep exploring and learning about Shavuot customs!
  • 4-7 correct answers: Good job! You have a solid understanding of Shavuot customs.
  • 8-10 correct answers: Excellent! You are a Shavuot customs expert!

Check Your Answers! 

  1. D
  2. A.
  3. D.
  4. A
  5. A
  6. B
  7. D
  8. B
  9. C

It’s All Good!

How did you do on the Shavuot Customs Quiz? I hope you enjoyed testing your knowledge of this important Jewish holiday. Whether you aced the quiz or learned something new, Shavuot is a time for celebration and reflection. May this festival bring you joy, inspiration and a deeper appreciation for the richness of Jewish traditions. Happy Shavuot!

Share your holiday plans, thoughts or questions about Shavuot with me in the comments below. I love hearing from you!

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Have you ever been so excited about an upcoming event that you count down the days, eagerly marking each passing day on the calendar?

The holiday of Shavuot is just around the corner. But did you know that its date isn’t explicitly mentioned in the Torah? Instead, we count 49 days from the second night of Passover until the fiftieth day, and that’s when we celebrate Shavuot.

Why We Count Up, Not Down During Sefirat HaOmer

On Shavuot, we commemorate receiving the Torah on Mount Sinai. It’s a time of renewal, as we accept the Torah anew each year. Despite the excitement, we don’t count down to Shavuot; we count up. But what does that mean, and why do we do it?

Spiral book entitled The Counting of the Omer by Rabbi Simon Jacobson

The Counting of the Omer by Rabbi Simon Jacobson is a great read.
Check it out HERE!

The Period of Sefirat HaOmer

The counting from the second night of Passover to Shavuot is known as Sefirat HaOmer, a 7-week period dedicated to spiritual refinement. We count upwards, reflecting our journey of personal growth and self-improvement.

Sefirat HaOmer is an incredible time of introspection and self-discovery. During these weeks, we focus on refining our character through the seven sefiros (attributes):

  • Chesed (Kindness)
  • Gevura (Strictness)
  • Tiferet (Beauty)
  • Netzach (Endurance)
  • Hod (Splendor)
  • Yesod (Foundation)
  • Malchut (Nobility)

Seven Weeks, Seven Sefirot

Each of the seven weeks focuses on one of these attributes. Every day within that week, we combine the primary attribute with one of the others, resulting in 49 unique combinations.

How the Spiritual Journey Works:

Week One: Chesed (Kindness)

  • Day 1: Kindness of Kindness
  • Day 2: Severity of Kindness
  • Day 3: Beauty of Kindness
  • …and so on.

Deep Dive into the First Week of Sefirat HaOmer

Day 1: Kindness of Kindness
This is straightforward: it’s nice to be kind.

Day 2: Severity of Kindness
This means it’s essential to set personal limits while being kind. Without healthy boundaries, you might overextend yourself or be taken advantage of.

Day 3: Beauty of Kindness
Tiferet is a blend of kindness and severity. Striking this balance leads to a beautiful outcome, reducing stress and enhancing well-being.

Make Each Evening Count During Your Spiritual Journey

Use each evening to reflect and improve yourself by focusing on these divine attributes. This self-refinement prepares you to receive the Torah in the most meaningful way on Shavuot.


As Shavuot approaches, embrace the spiritual journey of Sefirat HaOmer. Elevate yourself, refine your character, and get ready to receive the Torah anew. Make each day count, and transform your life with these G-d-given tools.

Watch the Video to Dive a Bit Deeper: Understanding the Spiritual Journey to Shavuot

A Question for You: How do you incorporate spiritual refinement into your daily life, and what practices help you stay mindful and balanced? Share your thoughts in the comments below!

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